Wednesday, August 11, 2010

How to Talk Dirty to a Guy : 4 Examples To Make Him Go Wild!

Do you want to set your man on 'fire' right away and make him make sweet love to you like never before? Then you must be willing to dirty talk or better still learn the art of dirty talking. Yeah! You need to learn too, doing it right can work like magic but doing it wrong can also be a major turn off! There are stages and you need to know about them....from softcore to REAL hardcore dirty talk!  How you say it, when you say it matters alot and affects the end result. You can go from soft sweet whisper to really doing it like you don't care, lost in a world of your own...screaming it in steaming hot romance!

But right now I want to give you something you can use straight away:

1. You can send him a text that says
Guess what I want right now?.... I want you right in, so deep...really deep, come and get me!

2. Whisper in his ears
Kiss me honey.....I'm dying to fill your hot tongue on mine, you taste so good!

3. When he feels like making love and he tells you what's on his mind, lead him on-
How do you want it....just say the word

4. Right in bed with a sexy bedroom voice
How about a pleasure ride right now..... tell me how bad you want it

Remember: don't say what you won't be able to carry out, don't build false hope.

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5 Mistakes That Partners Make When Trying To Dirty Talk

Okay, so you’ve agreed to give talking dirty a go to your partner. You may be a little nervous but you love them so much and only want to make them happy.

Like you, many people have the potential to fall into the trap of these 5 mistakes. Avoid these mistakes at all costs to save yourself the embarrassment of a dirty talk attempt gone horribly wrong…

Mistake 1: Emulating the Dirty Talk in Porn Films

A good deal of women are turned off by porn, so try not to emulate what you’ve seen during some of those movies. Lots of them have cheesy lines and actors that aren’t up for academy awards for a very good reason.

Mistake 2: Making the Dirty Talk Unbelievable

Be aware that talking dirty can come across as very insincere. Telling your man, “your cock is so huge”, when in reality is only about 3 inches isn’t going to make him suddenly feel like a stud. Likewise, telling her that that you love her massive tits when she is more “grape” than “grapefruit” in size could backfire. Sure, indulge a little but don’t go completely overboard with your exaggeration. In fact, when your lover is overly conscious of his or her size, dirty talk can do amazing things to boost their confidence. Tell the guy with the tiny penis that his cock rubs your clit so perfectly or whisper to your wife that you love being able to put her whole breast in your mouth. Dirty talk gives you the avenue to banish their insecurities and make them eager for more hot sex with you.

Mistake 3: Putting False Expectations in Their Heads

When you’re using dirty talk, don’t tell your partner about things you honestly have NO intentions of doing (ie. Threesomes, group sex, farm animals, sex in public, midgets, bondage, etc.) You may find that it triggers some new fantasies or embeds some new images in his or her mind that he or she could continue to ask you to talk about and then want to act them out in real life.

Mistake 4: Using Dirty Talk as the Sizzle Rather Than The Spice

Talking dirty can also become redundant (just like missionary sex day after day after day). Make sure that you don’t use the same phrases, over and over, or trust me, it will have the exact opposite effect and your partner might end up thinking, “Ok…I’ve heard that so many times… please shut up already.” ?

Mistake 5: Giving Up When It’s Not Turning Them On

Sometimes talking dirty can be more comical than erotic, depending on what is said and how it is said. It’s okay to laugh! But don’t give up. There’s actually a lot to learn! It’s not just the words you say!

Michael Webb is the author of “Dirty Talk Secrets: the ultimate guide to sexy talk”. His guide gives you over a hundreds dirty talk phrases you can use straight away to drive your partner wild. Plus you’ll learn how to feel comfortable talking dirty. CLICK HERE to get yourself a copy and spice up your love making.

Michael Webb's Guide: Dirty Talk Secrets

Michael Webb is a bestselling author of 15 books on sex, love, romance and relationships, regarded in the media as one of United State's top experts on relationship matters. He has appeared on over 500 radio and television shows including Oprah, Men are From Mars/ Women are From Venus, NBC News, 700 Club, The Other Half, Iyanla, To Tell the Truth and FOX News. He has been featured in practically every major newspaper in the United States and is regularly mentioned in the nation's top magazines like Men's Health, Bridal Guide, Cosmopolitan, New Man, Women's Day, Family Circle and dozens of others.

When it comes to love, romance, sex and relationship, he is definitely an authority and a respected one at that! This time around he has written a complete guide on how to talk dirty to your man or woman and get loved the more. This guide talks about how to give your lover an earth shattering orgasm with powerful and seductive dirty talk.

It's reall a must read for anyone and everyone who desires to please his or her lover and spice up that relationship like never before.

The guide contains:

What to say 
How to say it sexy 
Tips to build your confidence
An entire range of dirty talk phrases - from innocent to hardcore…
Sexy emails and text messages
Phrases for long distance passion while they're away
Both a male and female perspective on the topic of dirty talk...


Just imagine how hot and turned your lover will be when you surprise them with your new adventurous dirty talk…

Not to mention, how much closer together you'll feel as a couple. You may even start making love much more often.  Feeling this already CLICK HERE to find out more and also get yourself a copy of Dirty Talk secrets- The Ultimate Guide To Sexy Talk 

Dirty Talk Secrets - Book Review

Michael Webb's newest book to his ever-growing collection is a book called “Dirty Talk Secrets: the ultimate guide to sexy talk.”

But does this book really live up to the hype by teaching you how to talk dirty to your partner?

Let's find out…

Quite frankly, what would you want from a book like this? You'd want some ideas of what to say in bed, plus maybe some confidence-boosting advice.

And that's what you get.

The book starts out by explaining that dirty talk is, in fact, okay. Quoting a few passages from the bible and some fundamental 'why dirty talk is good' stuff.

The rest of the book is filled with all sorts of ideas of dirty phrases - ranging from calm to extreme. It also provides you with phone sex advice. Plus the email and text message phrases and ideas are a nice touch too.

However, maybe the most interesting and surprising part of the book is the last section in which a female writer provides her perspective on the topic in a very very interesting way. I'll leave this one as a surprise for you.

All in all, if you want to please your partner with the gift of dirty talk, then this is exactly what you need.
Dirty Talk Secrets

Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How to Talk Dirty to a Guy Through Texting

By Natalie Monroe
Men love dirty talk from their girlfriends. Now with SMS you can reach out and send dirty text messages to your guy anytime, anywhere.

The best dirty texts you can send a guy are ones that create vivid sexual images of the things you want to do to him or things about you that you know trigger his lust.

Once you implant those images in his mind, he won't be able to stop thinking about you and will be racing home to you all hot and bothered.

Here are 3 tips on how to text dirty to turn him on

Tip #1: Be explicit

For example: Instead of texting, "I love it when you touch me," try "I love it when you touch the small of my back. It sends shivers up my body."

Tip #2: Be very descriptive by using sexy adjectives

For example: Instead of texting, "I love your strong shoulders," try "I love to feel your your hard, chiseled shoulders when you wrap your arms around me."

Or try this...

Instead of texting, "I love the way you kiss me," try "I love to feel your soft wet kisses on my neck and the way you gently bite my earlobes. It drives me wild!"

Tip #3: Take an everyday, mundane, activity and add a naughty twist to it

For example, you're out doing some shopping and you want to send your guy a sexy text like this...

You: "Hey babe. I'm at store checking out the new sexy teddies..."

(pause for several seconds to create anticipation)

You: "I'm holding one in a hot leopard print...it made me think of what an animal you are when I'm wearing a sexy teddy :)"

See how these sexy texts were very descriptive and took an ordinary activity and made it hot and sexy? They created vivid sexual images in his mind that will linger with him and build anticipation of being with you as soon as he can.

Send these kinds of dirty texts to your guy and revel in the response you'll get. It's wicked fun to be able to turn on your guy be sending him dirty and sexy texts anytime and anywhere. He'll be totally distracted thinking lusty thoughts about you.

Learn How to Send Your Guy Sexy Dirty Texts That Will Drive Him Wild